What the Eyes See

I have often heard that you see what you want to see, you see who you are in what you are looking at. I feel like this has more to do with art and things that you can interpret. Things like ideas, ideas from other people. When you listen to others speak to you your brain is working very hard to understand where the other person is coming from. You need to help them help you understand what they are trying to say. Sometimes putting yourself in the other person's shoes will help you with the process of understanding. We normally have no idea how the other person feels so all there is for us to do is to listen and process what we are being told.